Truth: “You can’t handle the truth.” – A Few Good Men

People say they want the truth. Is that true?

Truth, as it is normally used, implies fact. That may be a mathematical fact, such as a truth found via data. It can also be a truth about someone’s state of mind, such as their heartfelt opinion on a topic.

In other words, a truth is not a fabrication.

Truth is culturally important. Truth is the foundation of trust. Trust is critical to our relationships, professional lives, and legal standing. It is woven into many of our central tenants about being a good person: “tell the truth,” “be yourself,” “I will not lie cheat or steal.”

On the other hand, being caught in a lie can bring heavy consequence. Lying under oath can result in jail time. Cheating in a relationship can end in divorce.

The truth is valued above all else it seems.

However, things are mirkier than they appear. Take for instance women’s beauty standards.

Women are pushed towards the use of makeup to increase their beauty. And makeup is a fabrication. In this case, pure truth is disincentivized.

Maybe that’s just an aspect of our cultural concept around beauty?

Corporate exit interviews are a notoriously dangerous places for critical honesty. Even factual, carefully worded truth has harmed careers. In this case, the truth is punished. This runs counter to the idea that people want truth.

What’s causing this?

Let’s strip back the scenarios and look at how truth works as a function.

What happens when we learn the truth? We have a ground to reality. We now know, for better or for worse, the facts of a situation.

However, “for worse” can be quite unpleasant. Dreams die. Hopes fade. Trust breaks. And even in lessor cases, it’s still a bit of a bummer.

The truth can have a cost. But doesn’t the benefit outweigh the cost?

Sometimes, but not always.

For instance, makeup is so commonplace that there is relatively little risk in it being treated as falseness. Not wearing makeup, although a more objective version of reality, may impact a person’s visual attractiveness (within the current standards set by culture).

Another example is white lies. We all know we can’t put full faith in our friend’s remarks when it comes to our idea for a novel (there are exceptions). These little lies are usually harmless acts. No one is likely to get in trouble for being nice and being direct may cause friction.

Maybe we do want the truth, but only on more consequential matters? Though even considering higher consequence, we still face a problem.

For our current selves, truth can be painful even if it provides us with better information going forward. Truth may be an investment in the future, though the deficit between fact and fantasy comes due today.

So, the truth is often painful, inconvenient, and has an upfront cost with a hopeful payoff later. Do we actually want the truth?

For me, the word “want” is the problem. When I think of wanting something I think of two things: 1) desire, and 2) enjoyment. I can’t say I desire or enjoy anything that is painful, inconvenient, and costs me something upfront.

What I want is for the things I see in my peripheries and dreams to be real. Yet what I need is to stay on course so that I don’t get distracted by things that I want, but that are not real.

This distinction matters because it shows how difficult the truth really is. Each truth is a choice between the pleasantness of fantasy and the often less pleasant reality. It’s a practice., an act of bravery, and something often taken for granted.

In conclusion I suggest a change to the way we talk about truth: we don’t want the truth, but we can choose to seek it.

Philanthropy: How it alters our moral perception without altering structure.

Philanthropy is the concept of using resources for public good. It implies a net positive. In other words, the expectation is that society is better because of philanthropic efforts.

Mr. Beast is an example of what philanthropy looks like when used for business. Mr. Beast is a philanthropist. He has donated between $300-400 million dollars. Yet his business, valued at $5 billion dollars, relies on his image as a philanthropist. His business is philanthropy.

Let’s take a look at how philanthropy functions as a business using Mr. Beast’s company as a model.

Mr. Beast’s business functions as follows. The business takes in wealth, then redistribute a portion to acquire more wealth, then redistributes a portion of to acquire more wealth.

There are parallels to plain Jane business in this model. Businesses take in wealth, put some of that towards making things, which they sell to make more wealth. That said, most businesses exchange their wealth for labor. Right or wrong, labor wages are supposed to approximate equal exchange. Not a gifted or won redistribution.

A more apt comparison is the state lottery.

The state lottery has the same cycle and like Mr. Beast’s business it redistributes wealth without an exchange of labor. Further, the state lottery has not only distributed more in total wealth, but proportionally it retains far less incoming wealth than Mr. Beast’s company.

Yet the state lottery does not feel more philanthropic than Mr. Beast.

Mr. Beast is a person making donations and the state lottery is a business making money. But Mr. Beast is also making money.

Put another way, Mr. Beast is able to do less redistribution than the state lottery, but is seen as more philanthropic.

The word philanthropy is stating less about the mode or impact and more about the motive. It is distorting our view. Let’s take the word out of our analysis for a moment and consider what Mr. Beast’s philanthropy is as a system.

Mr. Beast donates money. Regardless of his intent, the result is his company’s value increases. That increase must be greater than his donations in the long run. Otherwise, the business would collapse.

Taking in more than what goes out is a necessary condition for the survival of all business.

The result is, if the system used by Mr. Beast’s business succeeds, the system will ultimately have taken more than it has given. If it fails, it collapses and ceases to give.

Bringing back in the word “philanthropy,” Mr. Beast’s philanthropy is part of a system that ultimately takes more than it gives. The use of the word philanthropy obscures the underlying inevitability of the system. Further, attaching a word like philanthropic or similar words like “giving” to other systems yield the same contradiction.

Thus, philanthropy implies net giving, successful business cannot, and the use of the word philanthropy when it pertains to a business allows extraction to masquerade as virtue.